Almost 25 years ago the Pontifical Council for the Laity put out "The Dignity of Older People and their Mission in the Church and in the World". As we today celebrate the feast of STS. JOACHIM AND ANNE, the parents of the Blessed Virgin, Jesus' grandparents, I thought it appropriate to present parts of the document- so relevant today.
People today live longer and enjoy better health than in the past. They are also able to cultivate interests made possible by higher levels of education. No longer is old age synonymous with dependence on others or a diminished quality of life.
But all
this seems not enough to dislodge a negative image of old age or encourage a
positive acceptance of a period of life in which many of our contemporaries
see nothing but an unavoidable and burdensome decline.
The
perception of old age as a period of decline, in which human and social
inadequacy is taken for granted, is in fact very widespread today. But
this is a stereotype. It does not take account of a condition that is in
practice far more diversified, because older people are not a homogeneous human
group and old age is experienced in very different ways.
There are
those older people who are capable of grasping the significance that old age
has in the context of human existence, and who confront it not only with
serenity and dignity, but as a time of life which offers them new opportunities
for growth and commitment. But there are others – more numerous in our
own day – to whom old age is a traumatic experience, and who react to their own
ageing with attitudes ranging from passive resignation to rebellion, rejection,
and despair. They are persons who become locked into themselves and
self-marginalized, thus accelerating the process of their own physical and
mental deterioration.
It may thus
be affirmed that the aspects of the third and fourth ages are as manifold and
varied as older people themselves, and that each of us prepares for old age,
and the way we experience it, in the course of our own life. In this
sense, old age grows with us. And the quality of our old age will especially
depend on our capacity to grasp its meaning and appreciate its value both at
the purely human level and at the level of faith. We therefore need to
situate old age in the context of a precise providential scheme of God who is
love. We need to accept it as a stage in the journey by which Christ
leads us to the Father’s house (cf. John 14:2). Only in the
light of the faith, strengthened by the hope which does not deceive (cf.
Romans 5:5), shall we be able to accept old age in a truly Christian way
both as a gift and a task.
That is the
secret of the youthfulness of spirit, which we can continue to cultivate in
spite of the passing of years. Linda, a woman who lived to the age of
106, left us a magnificent testimony of this. On her 101st birthday, she
confided to a friend: “I’m now 102 years old, but I’m strong, you know.
Physically I have some disabilities, but spiritually there is nothing I can’t
do. I don’t let physical impediments stand in the way, I pay no attention
to them. I don’t suffer old age, because I ignore it: it goes ahead on
its own, but I pay no heed to it. The only way to live well in old age is
to live it in God.”
To correct
the current, largely negative image of old age is therefore a cultural and
educational task which ought to involve all generations. We have a
responsibility towards older people today: we need to help them to grasp the
sense of their age, to appreciate its resources, and to overcome the temptation
to reject it, and so succumb to self-isolation, resignation, and a feeling of
uselessness and despair. We also have a responsibility towards future
generations: that of preparing a human, social, and spiritual context in which
each person may live this period of life with dignity and fullness.
In his
message to the UN’s World Assembly on Ageing, Pope John Paul II affirmed: “Life
is a gift of God to man who is created out of love in the image and likeness of
God. This understanding of the sacred dignity of the human person leads
to the appreciation of every stage of life. It is a question of
consistency and justice. It is impossible to truly value the life of an
older person if the life of a child is not valued from the moment of its
conception. No one knows where we might arrive, if life is no longer
respected as something inalienable and sacred.”
The
multi-generational society we aspire to shall only become an enduring reality
if it be based on respect for life in all its phases. The presence of so
many older persons in the modern world needs to be recognized as a gift, a new
human and spiritual potential for enrichment. It is a sign of the times
which, if fully accepted and understood, may help contemporary men and women to
rediscover the fundamental meaning of life, which far transcends the purely
contingent meanings attributed to it by market forces, by the State, and by the
prevailing mentality.
The
contribution that older people, by their experience, can make to the process of
making our society and culture more human is particularly valuable. It
needs to be encouraged by fostering what might be termed the charisms
proper to old age, namely:
Disinterestedness. The
prevailing culture of our time measures the value of our actions according to
criteria of efficiency and material success, which ignore the dimension of
disinterestedness: of giving something, or giving ourselves, without any
thought of a return. Older people, who have time on their hands, may
recall the attention of an over-busy society to the need to break down the
barriers of an indifference that debases, discourages and stifles altruistic
impulses.
Memory. The
younger generations are losing a sense of history and consequently the sense of
their own identity. A society that minimizes the sense of history fails
in its responsibility to educate young people. A society that ignores the
past more easily runs the risk of repeating its errors. The loss of an
historical sense is also attributable to a system of life that has marginalized
and isolated older people, and that hampers dialogue between the generations.
Experience. Today
we live in a world in which the responses of science and technology seem to
have supplanted the value of the experience accumulated by older people in the
course of their whole lives. This kind of cultural barrier should not
discourage people of the third and fourth ages, since they still have a lot to
say to the young generations and to share with them.
Interdependence. No
man is an island. But growing individualism and self-seeking are
obscuring this truth. Older people, in their search for companionship,
challenge a society in which the weaker are often abandoned; they draw
attention to the social nature of man and to the need to repair the fabric of
interpersonal and social relationships.
A more
complete vision of life. Our life is dominated by haste, by
agitation, and frequently by neurosis. It is a distracted life, a life in
which the fundamental questions about the vocation, dignity, and destiny of man
are forgotten. The third age is also the age of simplicity and
contemplation. The affective, moral, and religious values embodied by
older people are an indispensable resource for fostering the harmony of
society, of the family, and of the individual. These values include a
sense of responsibility, faith in God, friendship, disinterest in power,
prudence, patience, wisdom, and a deep inner conviction of the need to respect
the creation and foster peace. Older people understand the superiority of
“being” over “having". Human societies would be better if they learned to
benefit from the charisms of old age.