People who
know me, know that as a child psychologist, I am deeply concerned about the
spiritual welfare of our children today.
This latest survey is distressing, and I think shows why our youth today
are in such bad straits!
For
decades, the share of U.S.
children living with a single parent has been
rising, accompanied by a decline in marriage rates and a rise in
births outside of marriage. A new Pew
Research Center study of 130 countries and territories shows
that the U.S. has the world’s highest rate of children
living in single-parent households.
Almost a
quarter of U.S. children under the age of 18 live with one parent and no other
adults (23%), more than three times
the share of children around the world who do so (7%).
The study,
which analyzed how people’s living arrangements differ by religion, also found
that U.S.
children from Christian and religiously unaffiliated families are about equally
likely to live in this type of arrangement.
In
comparison, 3% of children in China,
4% of children in Nigeria
and 5% of children in India
live in single-parent households. In neighboring Canada, the share is 15%.
While U.S. children
are more likely than children elsewhere to live in single-parent households,
they’re much less likely to live in extended families. In the U.S., 8% of
children live with relatives such as aunts and grandparents, compared with 38%
of children globally.
When we
consider that the family (not preschool) is the place where children develop
into what they will become, especially in the spiritual sense. It is where we
are equipped to become what God created us to be. Children come to know who God
is through their parents. In the so-called developed world, the family is
increasingly an artifact of convenience at best.
In this Christmas season, we need to look to the Holy Family for inspiration and pray for guidance- which is not gotten from books or TV or the internet.